“My name is Jared, and I’m an addict and an alcoholic.”
Jared grew up in a supportive family in New York, but by age 12, he started using marijuana, seeking thrills and acceptance. He faced legal issues in high school but excelled academically, earning a spot at NYU.
Seeking Escape
However, his addiction deepened, eventually leading him to drop out. Although outwardly successful in finance, he was miserable and self-medicating heavily. “I was using a lot of drugs and was miserable. My addiction stemmed from a need to feel numb.”
Reaching Out for Help
After overdosing, Jared sought help, achieving over six years of sobriety. Yet he later relapsed, and his mental health spiraled as drug use overtook him. “I went into psychosis. I wasn’t dealing with my mental health because of my drug use.” A moment of clarity brought him back to his family, and he turned to Lifeskills for recovery.
At Lifeskills, Jared shifted his mindset. “I complained and complained… and realized it wasn’t changing anything.” He embraced the program, built friendships, and rediscovered joy in simple things. Working at Michael’s, he recalls, “I was making people laugh again, and it felt great.”
Rebuilding Life & Finding Purpose
With five years of sobriety, Jared has rebuilt his life, working on an adventure therapy team, leading ropes courses, kayaking, and improv for clients. “I’m helping people every day and changing lives.” He remains committed to recovery, attending meetings, and maintaining a solid support network.
Reflecting on his journey, Jared advises parents of those struggling with addiction, “Be patient but let go; take care of yourself first. Support your loved ones, but know they must do the work themselves.” [Read Jared’s Full Story]